{"id":15097,"date":"2024-11-03T20:11:52","date_gmt":"2024-11-03T20:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pakstne.com\/blog\/?p=15097"},"modified":"2024-11-03T20:11:52","modified_gmt":"2024-11-03T20:11:52","slug":"granddaughter-found-her-grandparents-wedding-gift-cheap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pakstne.com\/blog\/granddaughter-found-her-grandparents-wedding-gift-cheap\/","title":{"rendered":"GRANDDAUGHTER FOUND HER GRANDPARENTS\u2019 WEDDING GIFT CHEAP"},"content":{"rendered":"

Jen and her husband were on their 70s, as they haf five grandchildren. Three of them were women and two of them were men. They were ready for their grandkids, whenever they needed them.<\/p>\n

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Their youngest one, Eloise got married recently, and as it was their tradition, after the wedding the grandparents would buy the cheapest item on the wedding registry, and would give them $40,000.<\/p>\n

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As they wanted their grandchildren to keep it as a secret, they were the only ones who were aware of the tradition. Until now everyone had kept their secrets.<\/p>\n

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But their granddaughter Eloise accused them with being cheap. \u201cSeriously, Grandma? I just got your gift. An air fryer? That\u2019s the cheapest thing you could find on my registry!\u201d She said when Jen called her.<\/p>\n

As Jen was thinking that it was useful, she told Eloise that. \u201cUseful? Come on, you know you can do better than that. Everyone knows you have the money. I just can\u2019t believe you\u2019d be this cheap with me. It\u2019s embarrassing.\u201d Was Eloise\u2019s response.<\/p>\n

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As Jen had enough, \u201cYes, you\u2019re right. We are cheap, old, and useless. The only thing you DIDN\u2019T know is that the day before the wedding, we were going to gift you a check for $40,000.\u201d She said.<\/p>\n

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As the argument got heated, \u201cNo, it\u2019s clear. You just don\u2019t love me enough to show it. You know how much pressure I\u2019m under with the wedding. And then, this? It\u2019s like you don\u2019t even care,\u201d Eloise said and hung up.<\/p>\n

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Then they decided not to give the money to Eloise, and after a week later she called again after she learned that they truly gave $40,000 to every grandchild.<\/p>\n

\u201cI just found out that it\u2019s true you gave the money to everyone else when they got married. Why didn\u2019t I get anything?\u201d She asked.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe felt after your reaction to the wedding gift, it wasn\u2019t right to go ahead and gift you the money.\u201d The grandparents said.<\/p>\n

\u201cSo, you\u2019re punishing me? Is that it? Because I was upset about an air fryer?\u201d Eloise pleaded.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt wasn\u2019t about the air fryer, Eloise. It was how you spoke to us, the disrespect. That\u2019s not something we expected or can support,\u201d Jen responded.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut that\u2019s so unfair! I was stressed, Grandma. Planning a wedding is hard, and I just snapped. I didn\u2019t mean any of it.\u201d Eloise said, as she was in tears.<\/p>\n

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\u201cWe understand that it\u2019s a stressful time, but actions and words have consequences. We hoped you\u2019d understand the value of family and love over material things.\u201d Eloise said. \u201cBut you don\u2019t understand! Can\u2019t we just forget all this happened? I need that money, Grandma.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then Eloise threatened not to attending to Christmas, and said that they were excluding her. Jen said, \u201cWe love you very much. This has nothing to do with cutting you off. We just hope you\u2019ll reflect on this and understand why we made our decision.\u201d<\/p>\n

ANOTHER STORY FROM TIKTOK ABOUT A GRANDMOTHER WHO DOESN\u2019T BRING GIFTS WHENEVER SHE WOULD VISIT<\/strong><\/p>\n

DeeDee from the TikTok account, MoreThanGrand, is trying to give advices to new parents and grandparents. And her one post had caused a stir on the social media platform.<\/p>\n

The grandmother stated that she was living away from her family, and she would see her grandchildren few times a year. She had decided after she became a grandmother that she wouldn\u2019t constantly buy her grandchildren gifts.<\/p>\n

She also stated, \u201cI\u2019m cheap and I don\u2019t want to waste money on stuff that\u2019s just going to be cast aside.\u201d<\/p>\n

But the main reason behind her decision was to make her grandkids feel excited to see her, as she didn\u2019t wanted to be identified as the gift giver, and wanted to be the grandmother her grandchildren can receive support.<\/p>\n

Sometimes she would read to her grandchildren, and play board games with them. She would take the game with her so her grandchildren would expect her return to play again.<\/p>\n